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Volcombabe101
March 4th, 2007, 08:44 AM
I took Tanner (our 16 year old Shepard) to the vet on Wednesday, at which time the vet told me she had severe lung disease (on a scale of 1-5, 5 being worst, she said it was a 5) she also had severe dental problems, and arthritis. She was 16 years old, so some of it was age. The doctor told me we had 2 options, either putting her through all these tests, xrays, medication, and all these other stuff that there wasnt even a guarantee it would help at all, or putting her down. I told her we needed some time to talk it over, and in the mean time she gave me some antibiotics to give Tanner. On Friday morning, Tanner stopped eating. She was still breathing heavy. Mike made the decision that it was time to put her down, so we scheduled the appointment for Saturday morning.

Tanner didnt eat, and hadnt eaten for 2 days, so we knew she was suffering. It felt like putting her on death row. Counting down the minutes til we left, and she would leave us forever. I have only had her for a year basically, but Mike has had her since she was a pup. 16 years together, thats a lot. We decided to be with her when they put her down. It was so hard, she cried as they put the medicine in, but she died quickly. The doctor said the only reason she had lived as long as she had was because her heart was so strong.

She used to lay at the bottom of the stairs, and now everytime I walk down, I see the empty spot there and it makes me sad. She may have only been my dog for a year but she was still my dog, and I miss her like crazy already. Its too hard to let a good friend go, I cant even imagine how much Mike is hurting, and there is no way to help out other than being a shoulder to cry on.

We have 2 dogs left, and they are up there in age too. Mike thinks another one will go this year. I love them all so much. Its too hard. Sigh. Thanks for listening, or reading I guess. I needed to get some of this out, its hard to talk to Mike about, because he is feeling 100 times worse.

:rip: Tanner baby

Faith
March 4th, 2007, 08:46 AM
Oh, I'm so sorry. :hugz:

mommarocks3
March 4th, 2007, 10:23 AM
I'm sorry for your families loss. :sad5:

Lisa
March 4th, 2007, 10:31 AM
:sad11: I am so sorry.

MaryM
March 4th, 2007, 12:10 PM
I am so sorry! I know---first hand--what that is like. I truly feel for you!

Volcombabe101
March 4th, 2007, 01:24 PM
thank you all... sigh.. itll take awhile to get used to her not being here... she was our alarm clock in the morning. EVERY morning at 5:45 she would start crying until mike got up to feed her. I love her so much

~Lisa~
March 4th, 2007, 03:07 PM
I'm so sorry! :bearhug:

MyHandsSpeak
March 4th, 2007, 08:24 PM
I am so sorry for your loss.

maylet
March 4th, 2007, 08:50 PM
I'm really sorry

Melanie
March 5th, 2007, 06:34 AM
Im so sorry hun, I cried just reading that.

Melanie
March 5th, 2007, 06:35 AM
I thought this might help you a little

Just this side of heaven is a place called Rainbow Bridge.

When an animal dies that has been especially close to someone here, that pet goes to Rainbow Bridge.
There are meadows and hills for all of our special friends so they can run and play together.
There is plenty of food, water and sunshine, and our friends are warm and comfortable.

All the animals who had been ill and old are restored to health and vigor; those who were hurt or maimed are made whole and strong again, just as we remember them in our dreams of days and times gone by.
The animals are happy and content, except for one small thing; they each miss someone very special to them, who had to be left behind.

They all run and play together, but the day comes when one suddenly stops and looks into the distance. His bright eyes are intent; His eager body quivers. Suddenly he begins to run from the group, flying over the green grass, his legs carrying him faster and faster.

You have been spotted, and when you and your special friend finally meet, you cling together in joyous reunion, never to be parted again. The happy kisses rain upon your face; your hands again caress the beloved head, and you look once more into the trusting eyes of your pet, so long gone from your life but never absent from your heart.

Then you cross Rainbow Bridge together....

Author unknown...

astara
March 5th, 2007, 01:39 PM
that was beautiful! i am so sorry for your loss hon! i know how you feel. i went with my sister to put her dalmation down a month ago. she was like my dog bc i would alwayz stop by to play with her and watched her when my sister and her family went on vacation. i watched her go downhill fast and listened to the vet when we took her. they told us she had a aggressive tumor in her throat and it was the size of human fist on both sides. they mentioned surgery and chemo and everything else. but we made the choice to put her down. i know she is in a better place now. but still when i pull up at my sisters house i expect her to come running to talk to me. we are here for you if you need us :)

Chloe
March 7th, 2007, 05:55 PM
(((hugs))) I am so sorry hon, I am thinking of you xoxox

Volcombabe101
March 10th, 2007, 02:46 PM
Thank you all so much. It means so much to me to have people here that I can talk to. Melanie, that was so sweet, it made me cry reading it. I love you all, thank you so much.

SweetSangria
March 25th, 2007, 07:01 AM
dogs are like our family sometimes, and when we lose them it hurts just as much... i am truly sorry for your loss and i believe tanner will be watching over you in animal kingdom heaven